Money and Your Marriage
- By My Money Choice
- Published 02/14/2007
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Money and Your Marriage
While some couples, particularly those who marry with established careers, keep separate finances, experts suggest that couples merge their finances and work toward shared financial goals. While some amount of individual spending freedom is fine, approximately 80% of income should be pooled into joint accounts, savings and a joint financial investment portfolio. It may, however, be helpful to allow for separate funds if child or spousal support obligations, debt incurred prior to the relationship, or other personal financial obligations exist. Set a reasonable percentage of income to save for retirement, for an emergency fund, and for any short term savings goals. Savings goals should be mutual, and if you and your partner disagree on your goals, consider speaking with a financial advisor about the amounts you should save for retirement, emergencies and other goals.
It can cause an unhealthy division of power in a relationship if one partner has all the financial control, so some marital counselors suggest that couples divide financial responsibilities. One partner can handle monthly financial responsibilities, while the other handles portfolio maintenance, savings goals and investments. Couples should sit down together regularly to discuss financial goals, life goals, and money management, and possibly switch roles occasionally. It is critical in any marriage, regardless of who earns the money that both partners have equal input into how it is saved and spent. Failure to jointly manage family finances is often cited as a cause of marital problems.
Good financial health often goes hand in hand with marital well being. Work with your spouse to save money, plan for retirement and children's needs, and reduce debt. If money is a significant stressor and you carry extensive debt, seek help with your debt.
Debt settlement can provide you with a way to eliminate your debt in an affordable and timely way, allowing you and your spouse to move forward with a fresh start and improved credit. Consult Provanta Corp for help and assistance with debt settlement to move forward in your marriage and your financial future. When money becomes a problem in your marriage, seek help with your debt, with financial education, and if need be, marriage counseling.
